Sometimes dreams need to stay as dreams, because a dream is your hidden motivation that you need to keep it, protect it and make it bigger. While getting what you really want so fast, can kill your motivation too early.
It is the relation between desire and time. Only time can prove your real need, if enough time passed and you still have that desire for something which you’re not getting the chance to have, then it may turn from a simultaneous desire to a dream. People’s dreams are either under the category of a solution or what they think is the solution, in other words we think about a dream as it is the key for happiness door. But when we mistranslated destiny’s signs, here we may start sacrificing long-term goals for short-term desires which will push us far from our dream.
In order to see if this is what you have born to do, keep writing down your ideas and what you are passionate about and be honest with your paper. It is so nice when you read those notes after a year or two and you find that you achieved some of them and even you sat new goals that you’re on your way to achieve them. Some people blame their destiny for not being surrounded by supporters during the journey, here you need to know that entertaining cities grow faster, which means you need to find who shares you the same passion in life because an idea is like a plant that will never grow until it finds its convenient environment to grow in.
When do you know that you have to change your dream?
When it starts to bring to your heart the beats of fear instead of the beats of happiness. For example, when your dream is just the pure perfection which is an exhausting thing that you’ll never reach, but you still can try to be close to it without being obsessed about it because humans were created perfectly imperfect and that what makes each one of us unique by what he has.
After 2006 many families were forced to leave their homes, then the ISIS cries started in 2014 which resulted in many families to be forced to leave their own houses and almost all what they have.
A big number of people were killed, mostly from the minority groups, till now more than 1000 Ezidi women were killed and raped.
Despite of that, many people were able to reach safe places in Kurdistan Region or in the south of Iraq. The displaced people now are living in schools, mosques, churches, camps and other places. Even that many organizations tried to help the IDPs living in the camps, but what is provided is just not enough and people are suffering lack of drinking water, food, clothes, healthcare and education.The current situation in the camps is unhealthy at all which is making children and the disabled people the biggest victims of such situation. People with high blood pressure, diabetes, Asthma, Osteoporosis and other dangerous diseases are not getting any kind of medication in the camps, while some of them are in need for emergent surgeries.
The IDPs in Iraq have a lot of fears for the future, some of them are thinking of finding a way to leave the country, some are thinking of staying at their new places and the others are hopping to go back to their houses soon even though they are really afraid that this dream will not be possible in near future.
(Yezidis) and in Kurdish language (Iyazdi), is a religious group in the Middle East, most of them are living near Mosul in Iraq, and the other smaller groups are living in Turkey, Syria, Iran, Georgia and Armenia.
Ethnically they belong to the Kurdish origin with Indo-European roots, although they are affected by their surroundings mosaic formed by the cultures of Arab Assyrian and Syrian so that their traditional clothes for men are close to the outfit in the Arab section living near Mosul, like in Sinjar they wear long White dress with headdress (White or White and Red ) in the other areas they dressed in traditional Kurdish outfit usually, but nowadays the Yezidis Like the rest of people wearing what is worn by most of the people of trendy clothes especially youth community.
Their mother language is Kurdish, but they speak Arabic as well, especially Yezidis from Ba’shiqah near Mosul, all their prayers, rituals and religious books are all in the Kurdish language, or Mrgah Al-Shaykhan where the home of their princes, which was named in the history books as (Marg Al- Mosul) and their Qibla is Lalish temple, where the holy shrine of (l Sheikh Adi) in northern Iraq, and Ameer Tahseen Bek is considered as one of the most important religious people in the Yezidi religion in Iraq and the world.
Distribution and population:
Estimated population is about 250,000 in the world. 70,000 Yazidis living in Iraq and 30 000 others living in Syria and no more than 500 people in Turkey, where the number was more than 25 000 people in the early eighties, but most of them emigrated to Europe, and they are minorities in Armenia and Georgia where their origins are from Turkey.
There are also a small minority of the Yezidis in Iran.
Yezidis were called in some historical periods as Dasnieh then after Sheikh Adi Alhkari they were known as Suhbatiah, Adawiya and Hakkari, their most famous places as mentioned in the book Sharafnameh are Ibn Umar (Bottan) Island, Mosul, Dohuk, Diyarbakir, Halab, Urfa and Khoi in Iran the princes of Denbli, but this spread has been reduced by the genocide happened by the Ottoman Empire, and the biggest gatherings are currently in:
Iraq: in the province of Nineweh / Mosul: – Sheikhan, Bashiqa, Bahzany, Shingar (Sinjar), Zammar and Alqosh
In the province of Dohuk: – Sharia (Smeal), Khank and Derabon region.
Syria: Qamishli and Afrin area and Jrahia and its affiliates.
Turkey: Mardin, Siirt, Urfa, Kars, Agri and Ardohan near the Armenian border
In Armenia: Alakz area and the villages of Ararat Mountain and in the capital Yerevan.
In Georgia: in the capital Tbilisi.
Others: Germany, Austria, United States of America and other countries.
Are our people suffering from a shock? So first what is the shock? And which type of shock or shocks is this? If we think a little and just try to specify the problems first then we can start solving them , as we know that specifying the issues is half of the solution!…
Most of us know some of the personal and social shocks types and maybe we already have been through some of them by ourselves, heard about it by our relatives or it was a whole socially issue … but from one of my readings I found that there are many types of shocks that the Iraqi person may have lived or still living with till now!
Some of these types are:
2. Hurting people on purpose.
4. Homelessness and migration.
5. Human made crises: like chemical pollution and destroyed buildings.
6. Dictators and occupations.
7. Genocide and wars.
8. Natural crises like earthquakes and floods.
9. Ignoring the needs of disabled people.
10. Dangerous diseases.
11. Accidental missing of beloved ones, places, owns identity, home or territory.
12. Accidental changes in lows, familiar things and revolutions.
13. Failed medical surgeries.
15. Watching of death or injury.
There are a lot of reasons for shocks and the reactions are widely different, because it depends on traditions and cultures.
In addition to that there are also the fake crises that were used to suppress peoples’ voices and to limit their energies like fuel crises, sugar, paper, electricity, traffic jams and many others.
Those crises, the fake ones and the real ones, all helped to lower the people immunity, taking his will away and leaving him weak in front of any new virus that can attack the society.